I’m Embracing Fatherhood

Happy Father’s Day everyone!

Yesterday we brought Rachel to the Dream Centre for the first time. It was her first worship celebration in DUMC.

She was very well behaved, opening her eyes to look around her, staring at the ceiling lights, and listening to Pastor Daniel.

For Father’s Day, each of us dads were given a pack of tissues. I think it’s for all the sweating we’re going through.

Thank you everyone for your concern and support in the past two weeks. I was really stressed and unhappy.

Last week, the confinement lady went home, and I felt so much freedom. I was finally master of my home again!

Of course, that meant all my time was spent taking care of baby Rachel. I didn’t have any time to blog (although I’m still on Facebook!).

Hopefully this will improve as I get adjusted to my new schedule.

Yesterday I took the day to just spend time with baby Rachel. I’m really starting to get the hang of taking care of her.

When she cried, I tried various ways to calm her. I started to immunize myself from her crying, to detach any emotional feelings so I could concentrate on finding what was wrong.

I’m happy to report that I’m almost there. I’m doing it, I’m being her daddy!


Yesterday after her mid-day meal, she was lying there awake so I started talking to her. In the past week, we noticed that she was trying to make some sounds when we talked to her. I imitated her sounds and talked to her a lot to encourage her.

We had a gibberish conversation for about half an hour or so. I think babies talk a bit like Wookies so I made some Chewbacca impressions.

She looked so happy, I saw the corners of her eyes and her mouth go up. Could she be smiling at me?

One time, Poey Chin asked her “where’s daddy?” and she LOOKED AT ME! Her brown eyes looked around the room until they found me…

*heart melt*

That was the most fantastic Father’s Day present!

I’m now so happy just to spend time with her. I used to dread spending time alone with her, because I didn’t know what to do when she cried.

Now I can’t wait to spend time with her.

Today is our first wedding anniversary. Happy anniversary my darling Poey Chin! It has been the most wonderful year of my life.

11 thoughts on “I’m Embracing Fatherhood”

  1. Happy anniversary! What a wonderful gift you two have got this year! 🙂

    Adino: Yup! A beautiful baby girl is the perfect way to spend an anniversary.

  2. Oh?
    So fast one year liao?
    I thought I just saw the wedding photos not so long ago?

    Happy Anniversary

    Adino: Yeah, one year already!

  3. happy father’s day & anniversary! double happiness!!!

    Adino: Also double the cost. Just joking hehe… it’s really a double blessing!

  4. Whoa! You were married on 16.06 too? Same here (ROM). 7 years of wedded bliss 😀

    Adino: Happy anniversary to you and your wife too!

  5. Oh wow! Belated wishes to you and Poey Chin on your 1st wedding anniversary!

    Not forgetting also a belated Happy Daddy’s Day. *wink*

    Adino: Thanks for the wishes!

  6. Happy Wedding Anniversary! Glad that you are enjoying being daddy! ha ha ha so may you experience many many many more heart melting moments with baby Rachel n mummy Poey Chin too!

    Adino: I’m looking forward to those moments!

  7. happy belated 1st anniversary and father’s day..

    you guys work real quick eh? heh!

    Now..where’s No.2?

    *runs away before the rotten tomato hits her*

    Adino: 🙂

    No. 2 will have to wait for a few years… we can’t handle another one!

  8. i did wish u happy father’s day rite thru sms..so now here happy anniversary ya!
    bring more lil kids for me to play with k? 😛

    Adino: Not so fast la.. one kid already scary enough!

  9. Happy Anniversary and Happy Father’s Day to you too! And glad that you start understanding little Rachel!

    Adino: Thanks! It’s hard… each day there’s something new to learn!

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